Harobed TALES

   More often than not, we think that we hold the reins of our life but truth be told, it is just a make belief to boost our esteem and make us think that we are in charge of our lives when in the true sense life is in charge of our lives. Something so powerful can happen so suddenly and your life gets pivoted in a totally different direction and in just a moment with the littlest of effort your life changes forever. Almost like the Chaos theory, a small incident that can have a big impact on your future.        It sounds like mindless musings from a random person but it is not mindless and neither am I a random person, because a little bird whispered in my ears that you have read about me. Yes! Me! I am she, the one who he referred to as “his number one”. This is not a defense or acceptance of guilt but rather a chance to share with you what I consider my truth, because I’m only human and no matter how high our values may be, we all fall down at some point, but I feel no pain. I f

It is not what you are thinking! And do not ask me, how I am sure of what you are thinking? I know because my story title says it all. Young girl, money scavenger and all the tags or not! Holding on desperately to another person’s boyfriend or husband even? Home destroyer, hoe... Oh yea, the tags again but that is not the story today! Yes there is a side chick, with less evil qualities of course, but she is not me but I rather am him! Did I confuse you? Well, be patient, hear me out and let me break it down for you okay? I am the boyfriend or rather in this case the husband that is being held unto. Although I must confess, it feels more like I am the one holding unto her, because she barely lets me in. Perhaps it is a ploy to make me want her more, need her more. Whatever the case may be, it is working.  I never envisioned myself, in any ten possible future scenarios, that I would have a side chick! Life humbles and "it could never be me" can b